This week...
...I have been feeling very unproductive, and haven't planned anything great or fun or creative for the kids.
...Elwin is teething, and difficult to put down for naps, and not sleeping well.
...Josiah will not stay in his room for quiet time, so we feel frustrated by his door opening every couple of minutes, and no consequences seem to be effective.
...I am missing the double stroller for our long walks. One of the tires blew, and the other is no good. Still not sure if we should spend the money to get them replaced or buy a new one. I have been browsing for used ones, and haven't found anything that's suitable.
...we visited with my father who is in from out of town.
...we are house hunting, and aiming to make some decisions by the summer.
...I officially started selling Silpada jewelry and am looking forward to hosting my first party. Lots to do to get ready!
...I had a very uplifting conversation with a beautiful person I know.
...I have been feeling a bit isolated and realized that we don't have a lot of regular activities in our week anymore. I need to do something about this soon!
...we are considering preschool options for Josiah, or something!
...we enjoyed a birthday party for two little friends.
...Chris is finally started to feel a bit better after having a lung infection for several weeks.
...I am feeling overwhelmed by everything that needs to be done. I wish there were two of me right now!
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Tuesday, April 3, 2012
Sunday, March 25, 2012
Catch Up
I guess it seems that I have been too busy to blog much lately, but I wanted to share a few new pictures.
We all had the stomach flu...for days. It was so terrible!:
The boys enjoying some down time:
Taking advantage of the last of our snow, which has been gone for a while now:
'Sharing' snow:
Birthdays:
Playing Daddy's new guitar:
Visiting:
Standing everywhere:
Painting with food dye:
Making a marble run:
Celebrating St Patrick's Day:
Going for walks and hanging out at the park:
And, 'swing-face':
We all had the stomach flu...for days. It was so terrible!:
The boys enjoying some down time:
Taking advantage of the last of our snow, which has been gone for a while now:
'Sharing' snow:
Birthdays:
Playing Daddy's new guitar:
Visiting:
Standing everywhere:
Painting with food dye:
Making a marble run:
Celebrating St Patrick's Day:
Going for walks and hanging out at the park:
And, 'swing-face':
Monday, January 23, 2012
Lately, I have been...
...watching laundry pile up after our washer broke down. Finally bought a new one today and can't wait to get it hooked up so I can start washing again!
...feeling extremely thankful for the privilege of having laundry facilities in my place (and remembering the days when I didn't!).
...looking forward to getting our house back together after having to pull the entire contents of our laundry room into the living room to get the washer in.
...getting back into our schedule, as our regular activities resumed this week.
...pleased with how much Josiah loves his preschool.
...trying not to worry about some news.
...sorting clothes (does this job ever end, or slow down at least?!).
...exploring some part time job opportunities.
...not exercising enough, and needing to make this happen more regularly in the winter months.
...reading and learning about my kids, and God.
...not sleeping well. Elwin often sleeps in our bed, and I find it difficult to get into a deep sleep. Because the boys share a room we are having some issues with getting him to sleep in their room. It could be worse, but it could be a lot easier too.
...wondering when some things will get easier and trying not to lose hope in the process.
...enjoying inside time with my boys.
...fighting a cold (and losing miserably).
...wishing I had more time to spend with friends in my week.
...wondering where I will be in five years from now.
...recognizing some toxic things in my life, and trying to move forward despite them.
...feeling unmotivated in the kitchen. Since Christmas, I have really been struggling to get my meal planning back on track.
...celebrating and grieving the fact that Elwin will most likely be my last baby. At least we are going out on an adorable note! I just always thought I would have four. Sometimes it is hard to let go of my plans when they are obviously not God's plans.
...feeling frustrated with gluten. Why is it in everything I like?! And why are the substitutes so wretched? And why does this craziness have to start now? And if was aggravated by post-pregnancy hormones, will it eventually go away?
...catching up on Elwin's baby book and calendar. Having tomake up loosely guess almost an entire months worth of content isn't so terrible (for a second kid), right?!
...going to many appointments and scheduled activities.
...feeling very busy and I'm looking forward to things slowing down a bit this week.
...watching laundry pile up after our washer broke down. Finally bought a new one today and can't wait to get it hooked up so I can start washing again!
...feeling extremely thankful for the privilege of having laundry facilities in my place (and remembering the days when I didn't!).
...looking forward to getting our house back together after having to pull the entire contents of our laundry room into the living room to get the washer in.
...getting back into our schedule, as our regular activities resumed this week.
...pleased with how much Josiah loves his preschool.
...trying not to worry about some news.
...sorting clothes (does this job ever end, or slow down at least?!).
...exploring some part time job opportunities.
...not exercising enough, and needing to make this happen more regularly in the winter months.
...reading and learning about my kids, and God.
...not sleeping well. Elwin often sleeps in our bed, and I find it difficult to get into a deep sleep. Because the boys share a room we are having some issues with getting him to sleep in their room. It could be worse, but it could be a lot easier too.
...wondering when some things will get easier and trying not to lose hope in the process.
...enjoying inside time with my boys.
...fighting a cold (and losing miserably).
...wishing I had more time to spend with friends in my week.
...wondering where I will be in five years from now.
...recognizing some toxic things in my life, and trying to move forward despite them.
...feeling unmotivated in the kitchen. Since Christmas, I have really been struggling to get my meal planning back on track.
...celebrating and grieving the fact that Elwin will most likely be my last baby. At least we are going out on an adorable note! I just always thought I would have four. Sometimes it is hard to let go of my plans when they are obviously not God's plans.
...feeling frustrated with gluten. Why is it in everything I like?! And why are the substitutes so wretched? And why does this craziness have to start now? And if was aggravated by post-pregnancy hormones, will it eventually go away?
...catching up on Elwin's baby book and calendar. Having to
...going to many appointments and scheduled activities.
...feeling very busy and I'm looking forward to things slowing down a bit this week.
Tuesday, December 20, 2011
Lately, I have been...
...working very late.
...trying to get wrapping done.
...feeling frustrated with gift orders that haven't arrived on time for Christmas.
...shopping for last-minute gifts because of things that have not come in.
...standing in long lines, and realizing how patient I am without kids trying to rip things off the racks. It's almost enjoyable.
...feeling done with stuff, and wanting much more.
...realizing more things about myself that I wish were not true, and struggling to give them over to God.
...missing important events because there is just too much happening and I don't have the energy.
...really enjoying listening to Josiah talk about Christmas and what he thinks it is. He wonders what Jesus would like on his cake, and if He will come to have a piece with us...and why He won't. He said he didn't want to share his Christmas train with Jesus, and I have heard him saying that he will even though he doesn't 'wish' to.
...dealing with a very fussy, very clingy, teething baby boy.
...doing way too much laundry.
...going to bed too late just to have a few minutes to myself, and then paying for it.
...having some fun visits, and looking forward to more.
...getting excited about giving a few gifts and worrying over others.
...missing all of my regular activities, but also enjoying the breaks.
...trying to drink my coffee black.
...listening to old and new Christmas songs.
...missing the physical space and time to play piano (and not having a piano!).
..wishing I could speed up time for some issues and slow it way down for others.
...wondering when I will hear about my heart surgery.
...feeling down when I read the news, and wondering if I should just stop.
...hearing the beautiful sounds of Elwin trying to sing as he bounces to the music on my lap.
...wanting to read a great book (without falling asleep would be nice!).
...hoping that my boys will begin, in small ways, to understand the significance of the celebration of Christmas.
...feeling excited for a chance to rest in the peace of this holiday, however that looks with two little boys!
...working very late.
...trying to get wrapping done.
...feeling frustrated with gift orders that haven't arrived on time for Christmas.
...shopping for last-minute gifts because of things that have not come in.
...standing in long lines, and realizing how patient I am without kids trying to rip things off the racks. It's almost enjoyable.
...feeling done with stuff, and wanting much more.
...realizing more things about myself that I wish were not true, and struggling to give them over to God.
...missing important events because there is just too much happening and I don't have the energy.
...really enjoying listening to Josiah talk about Christmas and what he thinks it is. He wonders what Jesus would like on his cake, and if He will come to have a piece with us...and why He won't. He said he didn't want to share his Christmas train with Jesus, and I have heard him saying that he will even though he doesn't 'wish' to.
...dealing with a very fussy, very clingy, teething baby boy.
...doing way too much laundry.
...going to bed too late just to have a few minutes to myself, and then paying for it.
...having some fun visits, and looking forward to more.
...getting excited about giving a few gifts and worrying over others.
...missing all of my regular activities, but also enjoying the breaks.
...trying to drink my coffee black.
...listening to old and new Christmas songs.
...missing the physical space and time to play piano (and not having a piano!).
..wishing I could speed up time for some issues and slow it way down for others.
...wondering when I will hear about my heart surgery.
...feeling down when I read the news, and wondering if I should just stop.
...hearing the beautiful sounds of Elwin trying to sing as he bounces to the music on my lap.
...wanting to read a great book (without falling asleep would be nice!).
...hoping that my boys will begin, in small ways, to understand the significance of the celebration of Christmas.
...feeling excited for a chance to rest in the peace of this holiday, however that looks with two little boys!
Wednesday, November 9, 2011
Lately,
I have been...
...dealing with sick people in my house.
...trying to figure out how to clean vomit out of Bo, Josiah's favorite stuffed animal. I have soaked, hand-washed, sprayed, scrubbed, sunned and 'dryered' him, and he still smells. I think I am gearing up for a total re-stuffing operation!
...reading a lot.
...waiting to hear about my heart surgery. Still no news or timeline.
...longing for simplicity.
...trying to take pictures of simple things that I never want to forget.
...starting to think about Christmas.
...gearing up for snow.
...doing poorly on my diet!
...very thankful to have attended a Robin Mark concert with Chris, and know that my kids were well taken care of by sweet friends. We have not gotten out much since Elwin was born because it is so hard for me to leave a newborn with teenagers.
...selling things on a local classified sight that we don't need. This has been a great way to de-clutter, except for all of the no-shows!
...doing a ton of laundry. I don't think this chore will get lighter anytime soon.
...finding it hard to talk on the phone or stay in touch, and wishing I had more time for this.
...realizing that I like being home more with two kids than I did with one. Even though it is a bit lonely, it is much easier.
...doing lots of crafts with Josiah.
...making Elwin laugh. It is so adorable!
...dealing with sick people in my house.
...trying to figure out how to clean vomit out of Bo, Josiah's favorite stuffed animal. I have soaked, hand-washed, sprayed, scrubbed, sunned and 'dryered' him, and he still smells. I think I am gearing up for a total re-stuffing operation!
...reading a lot.
...waiting to hear about my heart surgery. Still no news or timeline.
...longing for simplicity.
...trying to take pictures of simple things that I never want to forget.
...starting to think about Christmas.
...gearing up for snow.
...doing poorly on my diet!
...very thankful to have attended a Robin Mark concert with Chris, and know that my kids were well taken care of by sweet friends. We have not gotten out much since Elwin was born because it is so hard for me to leave a newborn with teenagers.
...selling things on a local classified sight that we don't need. This has been a great way to de-clutter, except for all of the no-shows!
...doing a ton of laundry. I don't think this chore will get lighter anytime soon.
...finding it hard to talk on the phone or stay in touch, and wishing I had more time for this.
...realizing that I like being home more with two kids than I did with one. Even though it is a bit lonely, it is much easier.
...doing lots of crafts with Josiah.
...making Elwin laugh. It is so adorable!
Friday, September 16, 2011
Lately, I have been...
...enjoying these sunny days! Since I missed most of summer this year, I am so thankful for the warmth now.
...looking forward to all of our fall activities starting up again.
...finding myself at home s lot. Life with two kids feels more isolating than just one. Sometimes I feel jealous when I see a new mom with just one baby in one stroller because it seemed so much easier to plan things and get out of the house with just one kid!
...starting to read "Becoming a Woman of Simplicity" by Cynthia Heald.
...warring with a toddler over potty training, and many other issues, and wishing most days that I was doing a better job.
...longing for a bigger space. This is something I try not to think about or complain about too often (although I do!), but it is very challenging, and I continue to find it hard to make peace with where we are at right now.
...enjoying some new clothes and accessories I bought with birthday money!
...feeling frustrated with my weight loss start, but am committed to see this through.
...sorting endless piles of clothes. How can keeping two kids in appropriate sizes and seasons be so difficult?!
...cleaning. I have never caught up from before having Elwin. I would love to have a whole day at home by myself to clean and organize. So...I'll probably be feeling behind and unorganized for at least another few years!
...waiting on God for some answers.
...worrying about a health issue that Elwin is being checked for.
...wondering when I will work outside the home again and what that will look like.
...taking the boys out for lots of walks and to parks.
...planning for Josiah's 3rd birthday party. How can he be turning 3?!
...feeling excited about a new niece/nephew being born next month!
...enjoying these sunny days! Since I missed most of summer this year, I am so thankful for the warmth now.
...looking forward to all of our fall activities starting up again.
...finding myself at home s lot. Life with two kids feels more isolating than just one. Sometimes I feel jealous when I see a new mom with just one baby in one stroller because it seemed so much easier to plan things and get out of the house with just one kid!
...starting to read "Becoming a Woman of Simplicity" by Cynthia Heald.
...warring with a toddler over potty training, and many other issues, and wishing most days that I was doing a better job.
...longing for a bigger space. This is something I try not to think about or complain about too often (although I do!), but it is very challenging, and I continue to find it hard to make peace with where we are at right now.
...enjoying some new clothes and accessories I bought with birthday money!
...feeling frustrated with my weight loss start, but am committed to see this through.
...sorting endless piles of clothes. How can keeping two kids in appropriate sizes and seasons be so difficult?!
...cleaning. I have never caught up from before having Elwin. I would love to have a whole day at home by myself to clean and organize. So...I'll probably be feeling behind and unorganized for at least another few years!
...waiting on God for some answers.
...worrying about a health issue that Elwin is being checked for.
...wondering when I will work outside the home again and what that will look like.
...taking the boys out for lots of walks and to parks.
...planning for Josiah's 3rd birthday party. How can he be turning 3?!
...feeling excited about a new niece/nephew being born next month!
Tuesday, September 13, 2011
Sometimes I can't believe how much busier I am with two kids! One day blends into another, and I have a hard time keeping track of things or blogging regularly.
Lots of people have asked how I am adjusting, and how Elwin is doing, so I thought I'd share some details.
Elwin is a really good sleeper. He sleeps through almost any type of noise! He usually goes to bed around 7:30 and gets up around 2:00 a.m. to eat, and then sleeps until around 6:00. He naps several times during the day, and usually for a fairly long time in the afternoons. Although his sleep is not always predictable during the day, he is starting to repeat similar patterns.
Elwin usually eats every three or four hours, and he's growing fast! He is wearing mostly size 3-6 month clothing and size 2 diapers. His feet are finally big enough to hold some cute little shoes! I wish I could tell you how much he weighs, but we haven't been to the doctor's office for a while.
Overall, he is a delightful baby! He has a sweet little smile, and usually only complains when he needs something. He is starting to enjoy toys, and is beginning to reach his hands out to grab for things. He also seems to love being outdoors, and a long walk in the stroller is sure to put him to sleep. Elwin continues to be very cuddly, and is starting to want to hold hands and reach out for faces.
Josiah continues to be an amazing big brother. He always asks to hold Elwin or feed him, and he helps me bath him too. We had a problem the other day when Josiah tried to pick Elwin up without asking, which resulted in a tumble and some cries for Elwin! But he is learning quickly. I think he is anxious for Elwin to be big enough to play with him, but right now Josiah is thrilled with how willing Elwin is to share his toys!
Here are a few recent pictures:
Lots of people have asked how I am adjusting, and how Elwin is doing, so I thought I'd share some details.
Elwin is a really good sleeper. He sleeps through almost any type of noise! He usually goes to bed around 7:30 and gets up around 2:00 a.m. to eat, and then sleeps until around 6:00. He naps several times during the day, and usually for a fairly long time in the afternoons. Although his sleep is not always predictable during the day, he is starting to repeat similar patterns.
Elwin usually eats every three or four hours, and he's growing fast! He is wearing mostly size 3-6 month clothing and size 2 diapers. His feet are finally big enough to hold some cute little shoes! I wish I could tell you how much he weighs, but we haven't been to the doctor's office for a while.
Overall, he is a delightful baby! He has a sweet little smile, and usually only complains when he needs something. He is starting to enjoy toys, and is beginning to reach his hands out to grab for things. He also seems to love being outdoors, and a long walk in the stroller is sure to put him to sleep. Elwin continues to be very cuddly, and is starting to want to hold hands and reach out for faces.
Josiah continues to be an amazing big brother. He always asks to hold Elwin or feed him, and he helps me bath him too. We had a problem the other day when Josiah tried to pick Elwin up without asking, which resulted in a tumble and some cries for Elwin! But he is learning quickly. I think he is anxious for Elwin to be big enough to play with him, but right now Josiah is thrilled with how willing Elwin is to share his toys!
Here are a few recent pictures:
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
There may be nothing scarier than a man's voice (and kid's screams) on the answering machine, saying, "I have your children"...unless that man is your wonderful husband who has whisked your children out of the house(after letting you sleep in) so you can enjoy a morning of peace!
And, it's not even the weekend!
And, it's not even the weekend!
Monday, August 8, 2011
We've made it...it'll be six weeks tomorrow since we welcomed Elwin into our family. Somehow I thought if I could only make it to six weeks, then things would be a little better.
Here are some of the things happening in our world:
- Tomorrow, I can drive again!! Oh how I have missed my independence!
- Tomorrow, I am driving somewhere. I'm not sure where yet, but I know I'll be going alone.
- Some days I feel so much better, and others I still struggle with pain and pulling, and most of all exhaustion.
- My heart has been palpitating some, and I've had more pain. I think this is connected to the lack of sleep, and to the stress of trying to manage both boys on my own while Chris is at work.
- A friend told me that we would find a new normal once we were by ourselves, and we are slowly starting to figure things out.
- I love Elwin and can't imagine life without him, but I miss the old days too...can't wait until we can all hop in the car and do something fun again.
- I missed church this week, because I just couldn't seem to get everything/everyone together on time. It is so hard to get everyone washed, dressed, fed, dressed again, fed again, and packed. Somewhere in there, I just gave up!
- I got a pedicure and a new hair cut. Everything else is feeling pretty awful so I thought it would feel good to have something look nice again.
- I am turning 34 this week, and I'm not sure how I feel about it...I haven't had much time to think about it.
- Josiah is adjusting well and some of the behaviours are easing. I think he is still feeling a bit sad, and trying to figure things out. And he doesn't like it when Elwin touches him!
- Josiah will be turning three in a few weeks. How does this happen so quickly?! I am finding myself contemplating some parenting issues lately, and I want to be deliberate in my role as a mother. It is so easy to let things coast, and just try to make it through. But this little boy is learning lots about life right now, and I want to make the most of each day instead of wishing the time away. What an overwhelming task!
- Potty training for Josiah is slowly returning. I think we will break the record for longest time ever taken to train a toddler!
- Elwin is growing well! I think he is in another growth spurt because he is feeding like crazy! I think his immature stomach valve is improving, but nursing continues to be a struggle for both of us.
- Elwin is much more alert, and smiling a lot! He has a very sweet little temperament. He loves the swing, and snuggling best of all. He also enjoys baths if the temperature is just right. His sleeping patterns are improving. Last night, he slept from 11:30 pm until 5:00 this morning! Tonight is not looking this good so far!
- Unlike Josiah, Elwin is not a fan of the car, or his car seat. He screams loudly almost the entire time, until it sounds like he's going to stop breathing. We have to stop a lot to calm him down. Road trips will be fun!
- Chris says his back is getting better...
- This week, Josiah is going away with my mom for a few days. I am looking forward to this mini-vacation for him and me! I hope he has fun away from this 'newborn' house! And we are looking forward to catching up on some sleep (and shopping- maybe that's just me!).
Monday, July 25, 2011
Update
We are slowly getting used to family life with four, although there have been lots of bumps along the way!
Josiah is adjusting to the role of big brother. He is doing a fantastic job! He loves to hold Elwin and feed him. He is also anxious to have Elwin join in the fun. Sometimes he is uncertain of Elwin. He doesn't like the crying, and frequently joins in; however, he is getting better with this. Josiah has been more emotional overall, and he is often not able to tell us why. All of this is understandable, given the drastic changes, but it is difficult for us to watch him go through this.
Elwin is an adorable baby. He is super-cuddly and soft. He smiles often and we are pretty sure he has laughed a couple of times. Although squishy and new, he is a wiry little guy and already rolls from back to side to front regularly. He is usually laid back, but can be quite feisty when he's trying to communicate. Elwin has had some feeding issues which have made life difficult at times. He can only take in small amounts, and feeds frequently (and then sometimes goes way too long between feedings). Nights and days are now mixed up, after two beautiful weeks of sleeping at night! I can't believe this little guy will be one month old tomorrow. The time has gone by quickly.
Chris sprained his back the week after we came home from the hospital, and he is slowly recovering. He had a lot of pain to manage for a couple of weeks, and found it very difficult to keep up. He is now back to his regular summer work schedule, finishing up at his old office for two days a week and taking clients at his new office for two days. He is really enjoying his new space and is excited about his new business.
I am now a mother of two...feeling quite overwhelmed with how I will make things work. So far, I have had an overwhelming amount of support from family, friends, and our church family. Without this, I don't think we would have made it! But I am now needing to take on more responsibilities, including administrative tasks for Chris' business. If I was not recovering from a c-section, then it might be a little easier. I still can't bend down and reach things close to the floor, which makes caring for our toddler and our home somewhat challenging! I am also wrestling with Elwin's feeding issues, and feel that I need to make some important decisions regarding this in the next couple of weeks. On top of caring for my family, I am trying to figure out how to make work-related phone calls and do paperwork from a bustling home that seemingly never sleeps at the same time!
But when I look at these three smiling faces...
...I am so grateful for the way God has blessed our family, and I know He'll see us through all of the difficulties we are facing now.
Thank-you again to all of you who have cared for our family in so many different ways!!
(BTW- The pictues of Josiah and Elwin were taken by my cousin when she was here visiting, and I love them!)
Josiah is adjusting to the role of big brother. He is doing a fantastic job! He loves to hold Elwin and feed him. He is also anxious to have Elwin join in the fun. Sometimes he is uncertain of Elwin. He doesn't like the crying, and frequently joins in; however, he is getting better with this. Josiah has been more emotional overall, and he is often not able to tell us why. All of this is understandable, given the drastic changes, but it is difficult for us to watch him go through this.
Elwin is an adorable baby. He is super-cuddly and soft. He smiles often and we are pretty sure he has laughed a couple of times. Although squishy and new, he is a wiry little guy and already rolls from back to side to front regularly. He is usually laid back, but can be quite feisty when he's trying to communicate. Elwin has had some feeding issues which have made life difficult at times. He can only take in small amounts, and feeds frequently (and then sometimes goes way too long between feedings). Nights and days are now mixed up, after two beautiful weeks of sleeping at night! I can't believe this little guy will be one month old tomorrow. The time has gone by quickly.
Chris sprained his back the week after we came home from the hospital, and he is slowly recovering. He had a lot of pain to manage for a couple of weeks, and found it very difficult to keep up. He is now back to his regular summer work schedule, finishing up at his old office for two days a week and taking clients at his new office for two days. He is really enjoying his new space and is excited about his new business.
I am now a mother of two...feeling quite overwhelmed with how I will make things work. So far, I have had an overwhelming amount of support from family, friends, and our church family. Without this, I don't think we would have made it! But I am now needing to take on more responsibilities, including administrative tasks for Chris' business. If I was not recovering from a c-section, then it might be a little easier. I still can't bend down and reach things close to the floor, which makes caring for our toddler and our home somewhat challenging! I am also wrestling with Elwin's feeding issues, and feel that I need to make some important decisions regarding this in the next couple of weeks. On top of caring for my family, I am trying to figure out how to make work-related phone calls and do paperwork from a bustling home that seemingly never sleeps at the same time!
But when I look at these three smiling faces...
Thank-you again to all of you who have cared for our family in so many different ways!!
(BTW- The pictues of Josiah and Elwin were taken by my cousin when she was here visiting, and I love them!)
Wednesday, May 11, 2011
Lately,
I have been...
...not blogging! Our computer caught something that has been finally dealt with, so I am back online!
...getting bigger, and found out why today! My doctor said this is not an average baby (as previously mentioned). Apparently when they took that measurement, it was too early to tell how big the baby would eventually get. Right now, he is measuring the same as Josiah did at this time (and he came out at 10 lbs. 7 oz). I might have to return that newborn take-home outfit I bought!
...rethinking gratitude, and the changes I need to make to become someone who sees beauty again. It is very difficult to not be hardened by the things that happen, but I think I've been missing out.
...enjoying a ladies Bible study for the first time in quite a while. We are reading a book on fear...something I know very well! It has been encouraging, and I feel so blessed to have been invited to join this study.
...starting to fill in my pregnancy journal. I think my past miscarriages have made me hesitant to record anything (for this baby and Josiah) until I felt a little reassurance that everything would be okay.
...feeling thankful for my friendships, both new and old. Some are helpful and encouraging, some stretch me to be a better person than I feel like being, some give me hope, some are fun, some are comforting, and I don't know what I would do without them.
...feeling thankful for Chris and Josiah, and for the privilege of being a mom (and being celebrated!). Also, for having my own mom to celebrate with. I don't think until I became a mom that I fully appreciated or understood how hard it was for my own mom/mom-in-law, and I am so thankful for all of the sacrifices they both made for their families. I have also learned so much from both of their examples.
...dealing with some new and scary allergy episodes with Josiah. He has had two major reactions in the last week, and I am feeling uneasy because I don't know exactly what he is allergic to. We had an allergy consult yesterday and he will go for a skin test next week. Poor little guy!
...being emotional. Maybe pregnancy hormones, or life events, or frustrating encounters, but I've been struggling to keep it together.
...wanting to decide on a name for this baby (to my husband...if you are reading this...please can we sit down and decide very soon?!).
...attending the year-end banquet for my moms group. I love going to this group every week, and am so thankful for the wonderful moms who I have met there. They make me want to be much better at my job!
...trying to get our affairs in order before this baby arrives.
...noticing that it is starting to cost more to buy fewer things at the grocery store and to fill up the gas tank.
...taking fewer walks than I should be.
...feeling blessed by the many people who have support me and my family during this challenging time.
...nesting- well, if I am being honest, I am making lots of lists on things I'd like to have done! I just don't have a lot of extra energy to make it all happen.
...overdoing it! I think I have slipped back into trying to keep up with life the way I did before pregnancy and a heart condition, and I need to start saying 'no' again.
...thinking that I only have a few weeks left to go!
...not blogging! Our computer caught something that has been finally dealt with, so I am back online!
...getting bigger, and found out why today! My doctor said this is not an average baby (as previously mentioned). Apparently when they took that measurement, it was too early to tell how big the baby would eventually get. Right now, he is measuring the same as Josiah did at this time (and he came out at 10 lbs. 7 oz). I might have to return that newborn take-home outfit I bought!
...rethinking gratitude, and the changes I need to make to become someone who sees beauty again. It is very difficult to not be hardened by the things that happen, but I think I've been missing out.
...enjoying a ladies Bible study for the first time in quite a while. We are reading a book on fear...something I know very well! It has been encouraging, and I feel so blessed to have been invited to join this study.
...starting to fill in my pregnancy journal. I think my past miscarriages have made me hesitant to record anything (for this baby and Josiah) until I felt a little reassurance that everything would be okay.
...feeling thankful for my friendships, both new and old. Some are helpful and encouraging, some stretch me to be a better person than I feel like being, some give me hope, some are fun, some are comforting, and I don't know what I would do without them.
...feeling thankful for Chris and Josiah, and for the privilege of being a mom (and being celebrated!). Also, for having my own mom to celebrate with. I don't think until I became a mom that I fully appreciated or understood how hard it was for my own mom/mom-in-law, and I am so thankful for all of the sacrifices they both made for their families. I have also learned so much from both of their examples.
...dealing with some new and scary allergy episodes with Josiah. He has had two major reactions in the last week, and I am feeling uneasy because I don't know exactly what he is allergic to. We had an allergy consult yesterday and he will go for a skin test next week. Poor little guy!
...being emotional. Maybe pregnancy hormones, or life events, or frustrating encounters, but I've been struggling to keep it together.
...wanting to decide on a name for this baby (to my husband...if you are reading this...please can we sit down and decide very soon?!).
...attending the year-end banquet for my moms group. I love going to this group every week, and am so thankful for the wonderful moms who I have met there. They make me want to be much better at my job!
...trying to get our affairs in order before this baby arrives.
...noticing that it is starting to cost more to buy fewer things at the grocery store and to fill up the gas tank.
...taking fewer walks than I should be.
...feeling blessed by the many people who have support me and my family during this challenging time.
...nesting- well, if I am being honest, I am making lots of lists on things I'd like to have done! I just don't have a lot of extra energy to make it all happen.
...overdoing it! I think I have slipped back into trying to keep up with life the way I did before pregnancy and a heart condition, and I need to start saying 'no' again.
...thinking that I only have a few weeks left to go!
Thursday, March 24, 2011
In the past two weeks, I have...
...loved the warmer weather!
...been pleased to hear Josiah ask to use a public toilet (this has been a major roadblock to potty training).
...felt the need to have some fun (haven't made this happen yet).
...enjoyed a visit with my cousin.
...missed church and connecting.
...been doing Thomas the Train puzzles everyday (thanks, Debie!).
...had lots of pain. I had a condition in my last pregnancy that caused me a lot of pelvic pain. It has returned (earlier than last time) and with a vengeance. I think this is the most painful thing I have ever had to go through. It is made worse by moving, so you can imagine how many times a day I have to move. When I am not moving, it is just a dull and achy pain all the time.
...had a meeting with an anethesiologist at the hospital to finalize some of the details in my birth plan. This included an allergy test to see if I would react to any of the drugs they might use (as there was a suspected allergy before), but the tests came back negative. This means I will be able to get a normal epidural for my C-section. The one I had last time left me frozen for almost 24 hours!
...felt blessed to be helped by someone who gave her time even though she is struggling and in pain.
...felt sad for some people around me who are facing loss.
...been trying to organize and sort toys.
...been longing for a new wardrobe, although not planning to do any shopping in the near future!
...shopped for a take-home outfit for the new baby with no luck yet.
...wondered about some of the changes coming in the next few months.
...questioned some of the parenting and discipline philosophies I have encountered recently. Sometimes things seem great on paper, but they don't always always work. I feel frustrated when I try 'the right way' and it doesn't work on my child.
...enjoyed hearing Josiah sing lots of different songs and recite favorite stories.
...made pumpkin muffins.
...done a lot of laundry and can't seem to make a dent in the housework, and am still trying to be okay with this ongoing mess. My brain throws open the windows and cleans this place spotless every day. Too bad nobody else can see it!
...loved the warmer weather!
...been pleased to hear Josiah ask to use a public toilet (this has been a major roadblock to potty training).
...felt the need to have some fun (haven't made this happen yet).
...enjoyed a visit with my cousin.
...missed church and connecting.
...been doing Thomas the Train puzzles everyday (thanks, Debie!).
...had lots of pain. I had a condition in my last pregnancy that caused me a lot of pelvic pain. It has returned (earlier than last time) and with a vengeance. I think this is the most painful thing I have ever had to go through. It is made worse by moving, so you can imagine how many times a day I have to move. When I am not moving, it is just a dull and achy pain all the time.
...had a meeting with an anethesiologist at the hospital to finalize some of the details in my birth plan. This included an allergy test to see if I would react to any of the drugs they might use (as there was a suspected allergy before), but the tests came back negative. This means I will be able to get a normal epidural for my C-section. The one I had last time left me frozen for almost 24 hours!
...felt blessed to be helped by someone who gave her time even though she is struggling and in pain.
...felt sad for some people around me who are facing loss.
...been trying to organize and sort toys.
...been longing for a new wardrobe, although not planning to do any shopping in the near future!
...shopped for a take-home outfit for the new baby with no luck yet.
...wondered about some of the changes coming in the next few months.
...questioned some of the parenting and discipline philosophies I have encountered recently. Sometimes things seem great on paper, but they don't always always work. I feel frustrated when I try 'the right way' and it doesn't work on my child.
...enjoyed hearing Josiah sing lots of different songs and recite favorite stories.
...made pumpkin muffins.
...done a lot of laundry and can't seem to make a dent in the housework, and am still trying to be okay with this ongoing mess. My brain throws open the windows and cleans this place spotless every day. Too bad nobody else can see it!
Friday, March 18, 2011
I thought I'd include a few pictures from the last couple of weeks since I haven't added any new ones for a while.
Josiah fell/dove into the tub, clothes and all, while I was getting things ready for his bath (The worst part of this picture is that there was a lovely #2 waiting in his diaper. Really, don't give this too much thought!):
Hanging out with Bo:
Playing in the snow (although most of it is gone now after the mild weather we've had this past week!):
Josiah has gotten very tall these past few weeks...no more booster seat:
Hanging out with my mom and my aunt (They stayed with Josiah last weekend so we could have a rest. They also sorted out all of my baby stuff, did laundry, and organized the closet- a huge job that I was dreading. I think I could bring the baby home tomorrow and feel good about what is done!):
Here are a couple of shots from our time away (We stayed at the same hotel/resort where we were engaged eleven years ago this month):
Chris took this picture of the birds on top of our gazebo frame. I love it!
Sleeping has been interesting (The time change has been great for the mornings- sleeping in until past seven- but terrible for napping. I think I need to be more deliberate about waking him up from naps. This is a picture of Josiah after I attempted to wake him up from a sleep...not impressed!):
Speaking of unpleasant wake-ups...Josiah can't stand to see anyone napping. Here is one of his attempts at being ever so quiet so Chris could sleep:
And that's a bit of us lately!
Josiah fell/dove into the tub, clothes and all, while I was getting things ready for his bath (The worst part of this picture is that there was a lovely #2 waiting in his diaper. Really, don't give this too much thought!):
Hanging out with Bo:
Playing in the snow (although most of it is gone now after the mild weather we've had this past week!):
Josiah has gotten very tall these past few weeks...no more booster seat:
Hanging out with my mom and my aunt (They stayed with Josiah last weekend so we could have a rest. They also sorted out all of my baby stuff, did laundry, and organized the closet- a huge job that I was dreading. I think I could bring the baby home tomorrow and feel good about what is done!):
Here are a couple of shots from our time away (We stayed at the same hotel/resort where we were engaged eleven years ago this month):
Chris took this picture of the birds on top of our gazebo frame. I love it!
Sleeping has been interesting (The time change has been great for the mornings- sleeping in until past seven- but terrible for napping. I think I need to be more deliberate about waking him up from naps. This is a picture of Josiah after I attempted to wake him up from a sleep...not impressed!):
Speaking of unpleasant wake-ups...Josiah can't stand to see anyone napping. Here is one of his attempts at being ever so quiet so Chris could sleep:
And that's a bit of us lately!
Friday, March 4, 2011
Lately,
I have been...
...experiencing the urge to nest and get things ready for the new baby.
...getting away (Last weekend, Josiah's Grammie and Grampie kept him so Chris and I could escape for a night. It was so nice to relax and not be on a fixed schedule!).
...enjoying Josiah's stories, and just listening to him talk. He is so full of life, and very animated! He tells us lots of details about his experiences, which I am happy about. (When he was with his grandparents, he went to their church. This is how he described it: "I went to Grammie and Grampie's church. There were balloons! It was a birthday party...my birthday party? (It was actually a baptism service!). There were muffins and Grammie gave me one, but she did not have one. Then Grammie talked to all of the people and gave hugs. I played with the toys and the people..."
...working on potty training, still! We took a little break, but Josiah initiated it again this week. He is doing really well, but I think this will be a long journey (at least until the weather gets warmer or we start staying home more).
...learning more about myself and relationships, the good and the bad.
...listening to lots of Beth Moore sermons online.
...reading a novel, "Secret Daughter." It is an easy read, which I need right now for those late nights when I am at the end. Although the topics are quite difficult!
...feeling happy about something that I'm not allowed to share!
...tired. My heart symptoms have intensified a bit in the last couple of weeks, which have left me feeling especially drained.
...dealing with colds at our house...all of us at the same time. Thankfully we are at the end!
...feeling hopeful.
...playing with Thomas trains, a lot!
...going to appointments, although they have slowed down a bit. The last one was this past Tuesday, and everything with the baby still looks great. I love hearing that little heartbeat! They feel it would be best to do another C-section, so I am trying to prepare myself for that. It was so horrible last time, but at least this time I'll know what to expect and what I can request to make things a little easier. So far, I am not feeling the devastating disappointment that I did last time of not being able to give birth naturally. After everything we have been through, I am thankful for the possibility of giving birth to two beautiful and healthy babies, regardless of how they have to come out.
...looking forward to plans with friends. I love it when I make myself get out of the house even when I don't feel like it. When I am pregnant, I don't tend to do this enough.
...wanting to decorate something, but knowing that I should save the money for the months to come!
...trying to remember what our yard looks like without snow!
...experiencing the urge to nest and get things ready for the new baby.
...getting away (Last weekend, Josiah's Grammie and Grampie kept him so Chris and I could escape for a night. It was so nice to relax and not be on a fixed schedule!).
...enjoying Josiah's stories, and just listening to him talk. He is so full of life, and very animated! He tells us lots of details about his experiences, which I am happy about. (When he was with his grandparents, he went to their church. This is how he described it: "I went to Grammie and Grampie's church. There were balloons! It was a birthday party...my birthday party? (It was actually a baptism service!). There were muffins and Grammie gave me one, but she did not have one. Then Grammie talked to all of the people and gave hugs. I played with the toys and the people..."
...working on potty training, still! We took a little break, but Josiah initiated it again this week. He is doing really well, but I think this will be a long journey (at least until the weather gets warmer or we start staying home more).
...learning more about myself and relationships, the good and the bad.
...listening to lots of Beth Moore sermons online.
...reading a novel, "Secret Daughter." It is an easy read, which I need right now for those late nights when I am at the end. Although the topics are quite difficult!
...feeling happy about something that I'm not allowed to share!
...tired. My heart symptoms have intensified a bit in the last couple of weeks, which have left me feeling especially drained.
...dealing with colds at our house...all of us at the same time. Thankfully we are at the end!
...feeling hopeful.
...playing with Thomas trains, a lot!
...going to appointments, although they have slowed down a bit. The last one was this past Tuesday, and everything with the baby still looks great. I love hearing that little heartbeat! They feel it would be best to do another C-section, so I am trying to prepare myself for that. It was so horrible last time, but at least this time I'll know what to expect and what I can request to make things a little easier. So far, I am not feeling the devastating disappointment that I did last time of not being able to give birth naturally. After everything we have been through, I am thankful for the possibility of giving birth to two beautiful and healthy babies, regardless of how they have to come out.
...looking forward to plans with friends. I love it when I make myself get out of the house even when I don't feel like it. When I am pregnant, I don't tend to do this enough.
...wanting to decorate something, but knowing that I should save the money for the months to come!
...trying to remember what our yard looks like without snow!
Tuesday, February 8, 2011
Random Update
'Helping' mommy bake has become a new favorite pass time:
We've been seeing a lot of foxes lately on the marsh:
Having fun with boxes:
And lots of fun in the snow!
We've been seeing a lot of foxes lately on the marsh:
Having fun with boxes:
And lots of fun in the snow!
Thursday, January 13, 2011
Lately...
- I have been reading...too much! I always find that if my nose is buried in a book for too long, it's not a good thing. It means I'm avoiding life!
- It has been snowing a lot! It is very pretty, but I haven't had a lot of opportunities to enjoy it. Hopefully there will be time on the weekend.
- Josiah got his hair cut at a salon for the first time. It was worth the $12 to not have to fight with him. He was so perfect for the stylist, whereas with me lately he will not stay still. I'll be taking him again!
- We've been missing some of our regular activities that were suspended over the holidays. I am really looking forward to things starting up again next week!
- I was thankful for a good talk with a friend who let me vent my frustrations with out judgement, and offered to pray.
- Chris has been sick a lot, which is discouraging for him and for us. I think Josiah has been missing their time together, and is acting out in response.
- I have been frustrated with toddler behaviors, and repeating myself a thousand times a day. I have been lacking patience, and need some fresh perspective. I am thankful for the resources that I have been using on raising a strong-willed child, but the bottom line is that it's just plain exhausting (even without being pregnant!).
- We made the mistake of leaving Christmas stuff up too long. I am finding it hard to make the time to put everything away, so it is stacked in our bedroom and living room. I am looking forward to reclaiming my space!
- We were blessed with a supper, that was dropped off at our house by someone who was thinking of us. It was such a blessing!
- I've been meaning to start that prenatal yoga video, but just never feel like it. It is my goal to be well into it by this time next week.
- Although I am thankful for my doctors and how keen they are, I am feeling frustrated by the number of appointments I have for this pregnancy. Being considered high-risk is exhausting. I may be refusing some of this care at some point, but for now I will play along.
- Josiah has been talking to my belly a lot. He says, "Hi baby," over and over as he pats or rubs my stomach. It's kind of sweet!
- I have been thinking about preschool options for the fall, and have yet to decide what the best thing is for Josiah.
- I've been trying not to be stressed about employment, finances, short maternity leave, and what life will look like after this baby arrives.
- I've been missing time to myself.
- I've been bad at blogging! Will try to share some new pictures soon!
- It has been snowing a lot! It is very pretty, but I haven't had a lot of opportunities to enjoy it. Hopefully there will be time on the weekend.
- Josiah got his hair cut at a salon for the first time. It was worth the $12 to not have to fight with him. He was so perfect for the stylist, whereas with me lately he will not stay still. I'll be taking him again!
- We've been missing some of our regular activities that were suspended over the holidays. I am really looking forward to things starting up again next week!
- I was thankful for a good talk with a friend who let me vent my frustrations with out judgement, and offered to pray.
- Chris has been sick a lot, which is discouraging for him and for us. I think Josiah has been missing their time together, and is acting out in response.
- I have been frustrated with toddler behaviors, and repeating myself a thousand times a day. I have been lacking patience, and need some fresh perspective. I am thankful for the resources that I have been using on raising a strong-willed child, but the bottom line is that it's just plain exhausting (even without being pregnant!).
- We made the mistake of leaving Christmas stuff up too long. I am finding it hard to make the time to put everything away, so it is stacked in our bedroom and living room. I am looking forward to reclaiming my space!
- We were blessed with a supper, that was dropped off at our house by someone who was thinking of us. It was such a blessing!
- I've been meaning to start that prenatal yoga video, but just never feel like it. It is my goal to be well into it by this time next week.
- Although I am thankful for my doctors and how keen they are, I am feeling frustrated by the number of appointments I have for this pregnancy. Being considered high-risk is exhausting. I may be refusing some of this care at some point, but for now I will play along.
- Josiah has been talking to my belly a lot. He says, "Hi baby," over and over as he pats or rubs my stomach. It's kind of sweet!
- I have been thinking about preschool options for the fall, and have yet to decide what the best thing is for Josiah.
- I've been trying not to be stressed about employment, finances, short maternity leave, and what life will look like after this baby arrives.
- I've been missing time to myself.
- I've been bad at blogging! Will try to share some new pictures soon!
Monday, December 20, 2010
Update
- I have been dealing with a sick kid...thankfully he was able to tell us that his ears were hurting for the first time, so we caught the ear infection early.
- I caught a cold, and have been feeling miserable (the reason for no new posts lately). I continue to struggle with some other health issues, and am seeing a specialist tomorrow morning.
- I attended the Christmas celebration banquet at my mom's group last week. It was wonderful as usual!
- I went to breakfast with a friend, and then shopping with no kids. What a relaxing and enjoyable morning!
- Josiah went to play at his grammie and grampie's house so I could have some shopping time last week (so nice to have space to think and wander and browse without digging in my purse every minute for a toy or snack or drink or bribe or distraction...I have a big purse!).
- I overdid it at the mall on Saturday (yes, THE Saturday before Christmas), where I spent four hours squeezing through crowds. Thankfully, I am almost finished...now for the wrapping part (you may be getting your present in a grocery bag this year if things don't pick up around here!).
- I attended my Christmas staff party, which was held at a swanky little French restaurant. And I spent my Christmas bonus on a new mattress and protector for Josiah (oh, to be selfish again!).
- Chris missed his staff party the following night because he was sick (and I was too).
- Josiah has done a great job of ignoring the wrapped gifts under the tree. He has, however, decided that his shopping cart causes a huge stir when it is rammed into the Christmas tree after a good running start...the shopping cart will be banned until after the holidays. Hopefully this year, he does not remember that the broom makes a great whacking stick for the 'pinata' tree (sorry mom!).
- Despite feeling sick and busy and overwhelmed, I have felt peace. Not because things are great, but because God is.
- I caught a cold, and have been feeling miserable (the reason for no new posts lately). I continue to struggle with some other health issues, and am seeing a specialist tomorrow morning.
- I attended the Christmas celebration banquet at my mom's group last week. It was wonderful as usual!
- I went to breakfast with a friend, and then shopping with no kids. What a relaxing and enjoyable morning!
- Josiah went to play at his grammie and grampie's house so I could have some shopping time last week (so nice to have space to think and wander and browse without digging in my purse every minute for a toy or snack or drink or bribe or distraction...I have a big purse!).
- I overdid it at the mall on Saturday (yes, THE Saturday before Christmas), where I spent four hours squeezing through crowds. Thankfully, I am almost finished...now for the wrapping part (you may be getting your present in a grocery bag this year if things don't pick up around here!).
- I attended my Christmas staff party, which was held at a swanky little French restaurant. And I spent my Christmas bonus on a new mattress and protector for Josiah (oh, to be selfish again!).
- Chris missed his staff party the following night because he was sick (and I was too).
- Josiah has done a great job of ignoring the wrapped gifts under the tree. He has, however, decided that his shopping cart causes a huge stir when it is rammed into the Christmas tree after a good running start...the shopping cart will be banned until after the holidays. Hopefully this year, he does not remember that the broom makes a great whacking stick for the 'pinata' tree (sorry mom!).
- Despite feeling sick and busy and overwhelmed, I have felt peace. Not because things are great, but because God is.
Thursday, November 18, 2010
Sorry I have not written in a while. I haven't been feeling well, but am slowly recovering. There is not much new going on with us. Here are a few things we've been doing:
1) Last week I went to visit my mom. Josiah had been asking forever when he was going to see his Grammy, and I decided that it was time. It was nice to get away, visit family, and have a break.
2) I had a horrible experience with a bag of rice from a local oriental market. I opened it, and it was crawling...literally. I could not differentiate between the rice itself, maggots, worms, etc... It was the most disgusting thing ever. I wish it had stopped there. I returned it, and then a few days later we started seeing pantry moths. We had to throw out every opened dry good, and we never found the source. We are pretty sure they hatched from something in that rice bag...never again!
3) I am eagerly planning a trip to Quebec City with my sister in December. I am so excited! We have a few really neat things planned.
4) We've been trying to take potty training to the next level, and not sure if I'M ready!
5) I received some very good news about an unexpected Christmas bonus from my old job!
6) I am grieving for a huge loss suffered by some friends this week.
7) As I learn more about parenting, I have very much appreciated a couple of books by James Dobson. Although we have chosen not to spank (and he does suggest it), there are so many other helpful strategies that I am trying. It is so hard to be consistent, loving, and have long-term vision when it comes to these issues. I fail every day, but I keep trying and praying for the wisdom that I so desperately need.
8) Due to the health issues I mentioned, I am completely off of any form of caffeine. This has been a lot easier than I thought it would be. I don't really think about it until someone else feels sad for me!
9) I've been growing increasingly tired of 'stuff.' Feeling a big purge coming on!
10) Lastly, I have been appreciating all of the ways that Chris has taken up my slack around the house since I've been under the weather. He has done so much, on top of the extra hours he has taken at work because of my job loss. I am very blessed to have someone who steps in without complaint and does what needs to be done! I have been blessed by others who have helped or offered to help out in various ways.
1) Last week I went to visit my mom. Josiah had been asking forever when he was going to see his Grammy, and I decided that it was time. It was nice to get away, visit family, and have a break.
2) I had a horrible experience with a bag of rice from a local oriental market. I opened it, and it was crawling...literally. I could not differentiate between the rice itself, maggots, worms, etc... It was the most disgusting thing ever. I wish it had stopped there. I returned it, and then a few days later we started seeing pantry moths. We had to throw out every opened dry good, and we never found the source. We are pretty sure they hatched from something in that rice bag...never again!
3) I am eagerly planning a trip to Quebec City with my sister in December. I am so excited! We have a few really neat things planned.
4) We've been trying to take potty training to the next level, and not sure if I'M ready!
5) I received some very good news about an unexpected Christmas bonus from my old job!
6) I am grieving for a huge loss suffered by some friends this week.
7) As I learn more about parenting, I have very much appreciated a couple of books by James Dobson. Although we have chosen not to spank (and he does suggest it), there are so many other helpful strategies that I am trying. It is so hard to be consistent, loving, and have long-term vision when it comes to these issues. I fail every day, but I keep trying and praying for the wisdom that I so desperately need.
8) Due to the health issues I mentioned, I am completely off of any form of caffeine. This has been a lot easier than I thought it would be. I don't really think about it until someone else feels sad for me!
9) I've been growing increasingly tired of 'stuff.' Feeling a big purge coming on!
10) Lastly, I have been appreciating all of the ways that Chris has taken up my slack around the house since I've been under the weather. He has done so much, on top of the extra hours he has taken at work because of my job loss. I am very blessed to have someone who steps in without complaint and does what needs to be done! I have been blessed by others who have helped or offered to help out in various ways.
Monday, November 8, 2010
Lately, I have been...
...playing hide-and-seek.
...laughing at the grocery store (Josiah said, "Bye-bye sweetie" to all of the ladies we passed on the way out of the store, including all of the cashiers. He also spent most of another trip saying, "I need that, I need that," as he passed things that he thought he couldn't live without. On an errand with Chris, Josiah looked up at a large, inflatable Santa Claus and asked, "It's God?").
...trying to explain to Josiah who God is and why I can't find pictures of him on the Internet.
...loving it when Josiah says a big, long, "Uuuummmmmmm," before he talks.
...making sushi.
...walking in the rain.
...trying to figure out this parenting/disciplining thing.
...reading lots of books, and listening to Josiah 'read' his own books aloud.
...enjoying this season of "The Office", and not looking forward to what is coming at the end of the season!
...thinking about Christmas, how to celebrate, what to buy...
...liking my fixed haircut.
...running out of things.
...tired of meal planning.
...needing a break, and hope I can last until December!
...wondering what will happen next year.
...needing to clean, sort, and organize, but I'm just not in the mood.
...thinking of everyone who has suffered so that I could live free.
...not feeling great some of the time.
...finding used toys for Josiah at Value Village that he loves as much as the new ones, including some vintage 'Little People.'
...appreciating friendships.
...teaching Josiah how to share (How long does this take?!).
...wishing spring was here.
...trying to be content and enjoy each day.
...playing hide-and-seek.
...laughing at the grocery store (Josiah said, "Bye-bye sweetie" to all of the ladies we passed on the way out of the store, including all of the cashiers. He also spent most of another trip saying, "I need that, I need that," as he passed things that he thought he couldn't live without. On an errand with Chris, Josiah looked up at a large, inflatable Santa Claus and asked, "It's God?").
...trying to explain to Josiah who God is and why I can't find pictures of him on the Internet.
...loving it when Josiah says a big, long, "Uuuummmmmmm," before he talks.
...making sushi.
...walking in the rain.
...trying to figure out this parenting/disciplining thing.
...reading lots of books, and listening to Josiah 'read' his own books aloud.
...enjoying this season of "The Office", and not looking forward to what is coming at the end of the season!
...thinking about Christmas, how to celebrate, what to buy...
...liking my fixed haircut.
...running out of things.
...tired of meal planning.
...needing a break, and hope I can last until December!
...wondering what will happen next year.
...needing to clean, sort, and organize, but I'm just not in the mood.
...thinking of everyone who has suffered so that I could live free.
...not feeling great some of the time.
...finding used toys for Josiah at Value Village that he loves as much as the new ones, including some vintage 'Little People.'
...appreciating friendships.
...teaching Josiah how to share (How long does this take?!).
...wishing spring was here.
...trying to be content and enjoy each day.
Thursday, October 28, 2010
Chris and I have often survived on a limited income, due to putting ourselves through school. Chris was also a student for the first seven years we were married, and I finished my BEd. during that time. So, needless to say, things have often been tight. Now, being off work, I have a little more time to 'save' us some money. This is hard, because the more time I have means the more time I want to shop!
These are a few of the things I/we have been doing to cut costs:
-Shopping for used clothes/items (we've been doing this for a long time).
- Using homemade baby wipes, which are way cheaper and nicer than the bought ones (this idea/recipe/supplies were a baby shower gift from Chris' brother/sister-in-law that we have loved!).
- Giving free hair cuts to Chris and Josiah (I loved those couple years of freedom when I didn't have to do this).
- Giving a free hair cut to myself (please never do this...there is always money for your own haircut. I wish someone had reminded me of that before Josiah's nap today! I also know exactly what I want, and could cut it for someone else. But I didn't realize until part way through that I REALLY couldn't do anything with the back. So now I have to go and get it fixed and endure those 'looks' from hair stylists:).
-Baking more (especially items like wraps, specialty breads, etc...that can really add up. It's also very hard to buy the store-version of these things once you've made them yourself!).
- Cooking/buying more in bulk (this can see expensive for the first few months, but saves a HUGE amount of money if you can stick with it long enough for it to pay off).
- Cooking simpler meals.
- Making laundry soap (I don't think I will ever buy again!)
- Using dryer balls instead of static sheets (the cheap ones are loud!).
- Making hand soap (I'm still experimenting with this! The first batch is a little stringy...but it's so much cheaper, and better than using a bar). (NOTE: If you have a husband like mine who does not like the idea of homemade soap, try only having a bar of soap available for a couple of weeks, and he'll be begging for your homemade liquid version- even if it is a little sticky!). I'm sure I will find a better recipe yet, but I did have fun adding my own scents.
- Making bath salts.
- Making facial cleansers...I love this!
- Obsessively turning everything off when it isn't being used.
- Cutting coupons, bargain shopping, buying local or in-season produce.
- Using local 2-for-1 coupon book for family outings/dates (can't afford dates, but will use coupons when we can!).
- Getting a bus pass, and trying to walk more instead of driving when it can work.
These are a few things I would like to try to make: dish soap, shampoo, multi-purpose cleaner that doesn't smell like vinegar, toilet paper (okay, maybe not)...
Any other ideas for ways to save money or make homemade versions of household items?
(Oh, and Bob, watering down the ketchup doesn't count...I already tried!)
These are a few of the things I/we have been doing to cut costs:
-Shopping for used clothes/items (we've been doing this for a long time).
- Using homemade baby wipes, which are way cheaper and nicer than the bought ones (this idea/recipe/supplies were a baby shower gift from Chris' brother/sister-in-law that we have loved!).
- Giving free hair cuts to Chris and Josiah (I loved those couple years of freedom when I didn't have to do this).
- Giving a free hair cut to myself (please never do this...there is always money for your own haircut. I wish someone had reminded me of that before Josiah's nap today! I also know exactly what I want, and could cut it for someone else. But I didn't realize until part way through that I REALLY couldn't do anything with the back. So now I have to go and get it fixed and endure those 'looks' from hair stylists:).
-Baking more (especially items like wraps, specialty breads, etc...that can really add up. It's also very hard to buy the store-version of these things once you've made them yourself!).
- Cooking/buying more in bulk (this can see expensive for the first few months, but saves a HUGE amount of money if you can stick with it long enough for it to pay off).
- Cooking simpler meals.
- Making laundry soap (I don't think I will ever buy again!)
- Using dryer balls instead of static sheets (the cheap ones are loud!).
- Making hand soap (I'm still experimenting with this! The first batch is a little stringy...but it's so much cheaper, and better than using a bar). (NOTE: If you have a husband like mine who does not like the idea of homemade soap, try only having a bar of soap available for a couple of weeks, and he'll be begging for your homemade liquid version- even if it is a little sticky!). I'm sure I will find a better recipe yet, but I did have fun adding my own scents.
- Making bath salts.
- Making facial cleansers...I love this!
- Obsessively turning everything off when it isn't being used.
- Cutting coupons, bargain shopping, buying local or in-season produce.
- Using local 2-for-1 coupon book for family outings/dates (can't afford dates, but will use coupons when we can!).
- Getting a bus pass, and trying to walk more instead of driving when it can work.
These are a few things I would like to try to make: dish soap, shampoo, multi-purpose cleaner that doesn't smell like vinegar, toilet paper (okay, maybe not)...
Any other ideas for ways to save money or make homemade versions of household items?
(Oh, and Bob, watering down the ketchup doesn't count...I already tried!)
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